Frequently Asked Questions
Below are some common questions among new and returning clients
Can I have someone with me for emotional support?
If you would like someone with you for any reason for any of the sessions offered, then I ask that you book a 2 or more party session. Your integrity is appreciated.
Can I ask for a specific loved one?
Depending on the length of the session, you will usually hear from different people connected to you and sometimes connected to others that you know. It is rare for one of my clients to not hear from those they wish to reconnect with the most, but it has happened. Unfortunately, I can't control who comes through or the messages they bring, but I do feel it’s important to allow the process to unfold naturally and those with the greatest need will step forward. With that being said, occasionally, toward the end of a session, I have asked, "is there anyone [my client] would have liked to hear from?" and—if time allows—I will see if a connection can be made. I will be drawn to the strongest energy, and sometimes that isn't someone you were expecting or looking to hear from.
How long after I lose a loved one should I contact you?
I believe that answer lies within each of us. Mediumship, although it may help you in your healing process, will not cure your grief, and it will not bring your loved ones back. I am not a counselor, therapist, or psychologist. Personally, I suggest that you first seek the help of a professional or grief support group in your area to help you with the loss you are feeling, and I will be here when you are comfortable and feel that the time is right for you.
How long should I wait before scheduling another session with you?
I prefer that you wait at least 4 to 6 months before scheduling another mediumship session. If you have attended a group event or private group, you may schedule sooner. An event or group session does not take the place of a one-on-one as a private session offers more individual time.
How can I prepare for a session with you? This is my first time doing this.
This is a suggestion. Make a list that you can refer to of people within your circle, family and friends including those in spirit. The list is for you, not me. Write down significant names and dates connected to these people. Often our loved ones will bring through things such as exact names, birth dates, and anniversaries whether it is a wedding date, passing date, or some other significant date connected to you and your family. Go over the list before your session as this will help you to validate things easier, plus having the list will help you later when you are listening to the recording. You can also write on a piece of paper 3 or 4 things that you would like them to mention, but keep in mind that they must use what is in my frame of reference to get me to understand what it is they are trying to convey so, there are no guarantees. Another thing you could do is bring a small item of your loved ones and place it in your pocket, wallet, or bag and tell no one. Ask your loved ones to mention it and if they can, they will. It's important not to rely on those items, words, or phrases as evidence that it is your loved ones coming through. They should give you enough information that allows you to know who is communicating without mentioning those things. With that being said, put aside any expectations of how the session should or shouldn't go and just stay open to the process. If this is your first time sitting with a medium, please don't be nervous. I know, easier said than done. I think the first thing I would say is this: if you are having doubts because it goes against your religious beliefs then don't do it. It's only going to cause you more stress. If you are unsure but open, yet nervous because you don't know what to expect, then take a deep breath and relax. Your loved ones want the best for you. Your loved ones are here for you and want to speak to you as much as you want to hear from them.
Do you permit questions to a loved one during a session?
I have found that your loved ones will have answered any questions that you may have had by the end of the session. If by chance a question or two is not answered, then this could be for different reasons. One reason may be that I had misinterpreted or simply not understood what they were trying to convey. Another reason could be that what you have asked is pertaining to your life. Some life questions are not answered by them. It is my belief and understanding that they may not be able to interfere with your soul plan. Although we are never alone, you have free will and they will not tell you want to do.
Do you record the sessions?
Yes, I do. The recordings are free of charge and not a part of the session fee. You have 3 days from the day that it was sent to download the recording. After that, the recording will no longer be accessible. Recordings are usually sent no later than the following day, but allow at least 2 days. I do not guarantee the quality of the recording, so you are welcome to record on your own device as well. Please be aware, if you contact me after the send date to ask for another copy, there will be a $20 fee to send it. In order to receive a duplicate recording, you must provide the first and last name of the person(s) who had the session and the date that it was held on.
Can I bring a child to one of your events?
No infants or toddlers may attend any private sessions, events, or group sessions. If you feel that it's important that your child be a part of a private session or group event, I will consider it and have you sign a consent form. I ask that no one under the age of 14 be allowed to attend any event or home group without signing a consent form. The consent form states that you are aware of the subject matter and that you are accepting responsibility for the minor to attend the event or in-home group.
I'm used to texting you or calling to make an appointment, can I still do this?
Of course. Feel free to contact me in the way that you feel most comfortable.